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People Are Sharing The Best Meals Their Parents Made For Them Growing Up, And Wow, I’m Definitely Gonna Try Some Of These

“Her special recipe, which has been passed down to me, is something even restaurants can’t recreate.”

There's nothing better than the home-cooked meals you ate growing up. You know, the ones that transport you right back to childhood.

Family enjoying dinner together, seated at a table with various dishes, including a large salad bowl and several condiments

So, we asked AAPI folks in the BuzzFeed Community to share their favorite meals as a kid. Here's what they said:

We also included responses from this and this Reddit thread.

1. "My obaachan (grandma) cooks the best Japanese food, especially her karaage (Japanese fried chicken). I also love Japanese curry, chicken katsu, ramen, and udon. And Japanese snacks are literally the best. When my family visits Japan, she works so hard cooking my family amazing food, and I'm so grateful for that."

Fried chicken pieces on a decorative plate with a side of shredded vegetables and creamy dipping sauce

2. "I love the homemade pan mee (板麵) my dad would make, and we would top it off with dried anchovies, ground pork, and Chinese mushroom topping mixed in soy sauce and honey. For some reason, the ones sold at restaurants in Malaysia never taste quite the same."

A person holding a forkful of noodles topped with a runny egg, over a bowl on a wooden table

3. "HALWA!!! My grandmother made it for special occasions, and no food will ever measure up. Her special recipe, which has been passed down to me, is something even restaurants can’t recreate. Also, many establishments in the US don’t serve it (nobody knows why, LOL). I have so many fond memories of Diwalis, birthdays, and sick days when I have eaten halwa out of a tub (she always made it in large amounts for parties). Halwa is probably the BEST food ever growing up!"

Two bowls of vibrant sweet carrot halwa topped with nuts on a dark background

4. "Loco moco. It's a Hawaiian dish of white rice, burger patty, gravy, and a fried egg on top. Yum."

Plate of rice topped with hamburger patty, fried egg, gravy, and chopped herbs, served on a casual table setting

5. "Ang toh kueh 红桃粿 'peach' dumpling (aka Pung kueh 饭桃 rice dumpling). Peach-shaped pink dumplings stuffed with glutinous rice (peanuts/lapcheong/dried shrimp). Fry it up, and you get a crispy, chewy skin. Unfortunately, it is also a lost recipe for our family. There are recipes online, but the dumpling skin chewiness is never the same."

Plate of pink ang ku kueh, a traditional pastry with a turtle shell shape, on a floral-patterned dish

6. "Bo Chien Bo (translates to butter-fried beef, essentially Vietnamese BBQ). A griddle is set up, there are a bunch of proteins to choose from, and everyone grills their own protein. Lots of butter, lots of marinated meats. You can just eat it with vermicelli, or you can wrap it with rice paper. It’s such a fun way to eat, and I remember being around the table with my entire family."

Two people cooking on a tabletop grill with shrimp and meat. Various ingredients and cooking utensils are spread out on the kitchen counter

7. "Niu rou mian, or beef noodle soup! Any time my mom makes it now, I get transported back to childhood. And it's delicious, too!"

Bowl of beef noodle soup garnished with fresh cilantro and chopped green onions, with a white spoon resting inside

8. "IDK about favorite, but I ate the same stuff because my parents were busy. Repeat: Asian curry, doenjang-jjigae (Korean fermented bean soup), and kimchi-jjigae. Leftover and really busy: bibimbap or instant ramen. Good days: kimbap (my mom makes the best) and yukgaejang (spicy beef soup)."

Plate of neatly arranged sushi rolls with various fillings, including vegetables and meat, next to a pair of chopsticks

9. "Whenever fall and winter hit, I love to drink my mom’s homemade tonic soups (don’t know their exact names but they’re Cantonese). I loved the ones that are chicken-based with goji berries, ginseng, and whatever ingredients she’d put in. Nothing beats having a hot soup (with rice) when it’s raining or snowing."

A white bowl with a whole cooked chicken in broth, surrounded by acorns and leaves on a wooden table

10. "I am so grateful for the home-cooked meals I get. Some of my favorites include soft poori, chole (chickpeas with onion and tomato gravy), and uttapam (a savory pancake made of lentil rice batter with vegetables inside). They taste awesome hot, and I always look forward to eating them!"

Savory pancake topped with herbs, served with two bowls of sauces and a sprig of mint on a metal plate

11. "Sapasui is Samoan chop suey. I have sooo many wonderful memories of attending family events where I'd pile this high on my plate! Absolutely delicious."

A plate of braised beef with glass noodles served next to a mound of white rice, with a fork and spoon placed beside it

12. "Growing up, we didn’t have much, thus I have found so much love for the traditional but simple Chinese dishes that my mom would make for us. As for many Asian parents, food is their way to show love. Now, as an adult, I make those dishes in my household. Nothing beats some good homemade steamed/braised Chinese food when I am sick or feeling a bit down. My favorite is steamed pork belly with shrimp paste, plus a bowl of white rice."

Plate of sliced pork belly garnished with chopped green onions. Text on top right mentions a YouTube channel

13. "Vietnamese, so I honestly love Thit Kho. Super easy to make, but always reminds me of simpler times."

Hands holding a pot of braised pork belly with eggs simmering in broth

14. "My personal favorite that I've luckily mastered is biryani."

A dish of biryani, featuring rice, marinated chicken, and garnished with herbs, served in an oval dish on a wooden table

15. "Sinigang, caldereta, and adobong pusit are my favorites! My mom taught me how to make them, and I joined a Filipino cooking group on Facebook, too, so I get a lot of tips. I make it the way that my family and I like it!"

A hearty dish of braised meat with chunks of vegetables in a rich sauce, featured in "Yummy Kitchen."

16. "I loved congee or porridge. It was such a delicious comfort food. Whenever I was sick, my parents made it for me, and I always felt better. It was one of the few things I could eat while sick because it wasn't inflammatory, and it was nutritious. I still crave it whenever I'm feeling sick."

Person serving a bowl of congee with a spoon, garnished with herbs. A plate of greens is partially visible nearby

17. "I’m Taiwanese. In Taiwan, there’s this noodle soup made with a specific type of pickled vegetable used to flavor the broth, along with small, thin strips of pork. Sadly, I do not know the English name for this soup (or for the pickled vegetables used), but what I do know is that my grandmother made it for me all the time. To this day, I never get tired of it."

A bowl of noodle soup with sliced vegetables and minced meat, garnished with herbs

18. "For me, it's tuna curry and upma."

A bowl of couscous with vegetables and herbs next to a smartphone and a colorful coaster on a table

19. "My dad made Zha Jiang Mian all the time (our version is a bean curd sauce and crumbled turkey), over rice or noodles. It was something we ate all the time growing up because my younger siblings were too picky to eat anything else."

Noodles topped with diced meat, cucumber strips, and cilantro, served in a white bowl

20. "Fried spam and eggs with rice for breakfast. It's still one of my favorite breakfasts now that I'm grown up."

Plate with scrambled eggs, rice topped with herbs, and slices of spam. Forks, salt, and pepper are on the side

21. "Sinigang and white jasmine rice!!! The more sour, the better. And with okra."

A bowl of savory soup with chunks of meat, sliced okra, tomato, and leafy greens in a flavorful broth

22. "My mom used to always make stir-fried cucumbers with eggs paired with hot sticky rice. It was the best and still a comfort food for me! Also, I remember my grandpa used to make us the Mama brand of instant noodles. At the end, when there were no more noodles, he would put a ball of sticky rice on a spoon and dip it into the leftover broth to feed me."

A plate of diced cucumbers and scrambled eggs on a table with wooden utensils nearby

23. "Daal chawal. It’s basically white rice with lentil soup made with lots of different spices. Kids usually mash it up, and it’s a dinner staple in South Asian homes!"

A bowl of yellow lentil soup with a dollop of butter, served on a plate with white rice and a silver spoon

24. "Panikeke! One of my absolute favorite Samoan foods. They're fried pancake balls, and I especially love the ones made with bananas. You can eat them plain or top them with things like butter, jam, or chocolate sauce."

Four plates filled with round, golden-brown fried dough balls served on paper towels

25. "Lubia polo! It’s rice, green beans, beef, and that’s pretty much it! It sounds simple but tastes so delicious!"

Dish of rice with green beans and minced meat on a plate

26. "One of my favorite food memories growing up was of my grandmother's sticky rice, which we would often have for breakfast whenever we visited my paternal grandparents. Grandmother would steam glutinous rice and mix it with fried onions, crumbled hard-boiled eggs, chopped Chinese sausages, and other ingredients prior to wrapping it in banana leaves and steaming it."

Hands wrapping sticky rice with peanuts and meats in a banana leaf, an Asian dish preparation

27. And finally, "Every year for New Year's, my great-aunt would make somen, Japanese noodles normally eaten cold. Even after she passed away years ago, I make sure we keep up the tradition of having it on New Year's Day."

A plate of chilled noodles with ice cubes and garnished with green leaves, served with dipping sauce and condiments on the side

Do you have any favorite childhood meals? LMK in the comments below!

Note: Some responses have been edited for length and/or clarity.

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